Give Yourself Some Good Fortune This Holiday Season

By Qin Sun Stubis

(originally published in The Santa Monica Star)

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What is supposed to be Chinese and sounds Chinese, but can only be found in America? The answer is simple. It’s a fortune cookie.

Born and raised in China, I had never seen a fortune cookie nor heard about its existence until after I arrived in America. I had spent seven years as a Chinese cultural guide to Americans in the ‘80s and toured extensively in my native country, so I considered myself to be well-travelled and knowledgeable about China and Chinese customs.

So it came as a surprise when I was given a strangely shaped object at the end of a meal in a Chinese restaurant in Manhattan.

“What’s that?” I asked, looking up at my waiter. It almost looked like a dumpling, but it wasn’t. “A fortune cookie, of course,” the waiter answered matter of factly as he tucked the bill under my teapot. I felt my face burning as I sensed all eyes in the restaurant focusing on me: What kind of Chinese person am I not knowing what this is?

But, I didn’t know what it was. After hesitating for a moment, I picked it up and snapped it open. A slip of paper magically appeared. Wow, how fun! I forgot all about my embarrassment. “You can climb high on a ladder, but you’ll feel very lonely,” it warned. I slowly chewed on these words as I tasted my first fortune cookie.

I learned later that fortune cookies were a marketing gimmick created by some smart Chinese immigrants, enticing patrons with the unique experience of getting a meal and a glimpse of the future, as well. Obviously, their strategy worked very well, judging by the number of Chinese restaurants in America.

Admittedly, I’ve had a lot of fun with fortune cookies since my first embarrassment. I especially enjoy the moment of anticipation every time I’m about to open a fortune cookie. And, I love to read what’s inside, whether an idiom, a philosophical statement, or a nonsensical prediction.

I’ve also learned through this package of sweet surprise that it is fun to make a positive prediction about our lives, whether or not they come true. When we really like a prophecy, we can always work hard toward it. So, this holiday season, don’t forget to give yourself some good Chinese fortune. Whether words on a slip of paper, secret wishes, or optimistic proclamations, they can bring you luck and happiness during the coming New Year.

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A longtime columnist of ours, Qin lives in Bethesda, MD.

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